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New Website

2010-11-08T00:54:00.002+08:00

We have moved to a new website location. Please visit our new home!!! Thank you for your continuous support and regular visits!

www.tietheknot.my

xxx
Sherly

Client Raves: Cynthia & Aaron

2010-10-14T10:34:00.004+08:00

I love these kind of emails! *heart* Makes me feel warm & fuzzy inside. :)

"Aaron and I had a year to plan for our wedding...one may think a year is a long time but it passed by in a blink of an eye.. Initially we did all the planning as the thought of hiring someone to plan everything for us would cost a bomb! But we really needed someone to coordinate the whole wedding..but who? As things were getting more stressful, God sent us an angel. He sent Sherly. I just so happened to have read a link on my friend's FaceBook page and voila the next thing I knew, we found ourselves a wedding coordinator! That’s what I loved bout Tie-Knot, they don't insist that they have to plan everything from scratch like some wedding planners but they offer varied services which included wedding coordination and more importantly they were affordable!

Upon meeting Sherly for the first time at StarBucks, she has a very genuine spirit, sweet, caring personality..and we just clicked!!! The funny part bout Sherly was that she was supposed to be the "coordinator" but instead she did more than coordinate...she gave me advice on vendors I should consider engaging and constantly kept abreast with our progress right up to the wedding! Remember the FaceBook chats in the middle of the night, Sherly? Closer to the wedding day, Sherly did things for us that she didn't need to do... she offered to do them just because she is the sweetest!!!!

On our wedding day Aaron and I didn’t have anything to worry about as we knew we were in prefect hands...

Aaron & I were truly blessed to have had the privilege of working with someone who really poured out her heart and soul into every tiny detail with such grace and professionalism.

Sherly, you are such a darling!! In you not only did i find the perfect wedding coordinator..in you i've found a dear friend! Hugs!!!

Kudos to you, Boon, Nora and the rest of your team!!!"

Ramadan Mubarak

2010-08-16T00:47:00.003+08:00

Wishing our Muslim readers a blessed month, full of answered prayers and contentment. Selamat berpuasa! (Happy fasting)

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Sad Loss

2010-08-16T00:32:00.002+08:00

Hello friends,

Sharing a quick note on my long absence and to let you know that I'll be back updating soon. Aside for the fact that we're in the midst of coming up with a new look and website; my family and I have suffered a tragic and sudden loss and despite it being 43 days since my beloved Daddy's passing we're still in the grieving process which comes and goes like tidal waves. His absence will be forever felt and may Allah bless his soul always.

Al Fatihah.

For those who got to know that something was amiss - thank you for your love, prayers and support. It has meant the world to me and my family and I cannot thank you enough.

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Stay Tuned: This Coming September!

2010-07-28T00:36:00.001+08:00

Be Inspired: Flowers That Doesn't Fade!

2010-07-27T23:33:00.001+08:00

Have you tried making your own flowers using paper tissue or even napkins? Before you utter the words "that's so cheap", take a look at these simply beautiful paper flowers for weddings or any parties. Not only are they cost saving but also easy to D-I-Y.

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Wedding Planner Myths: You Do or I Do?

2010-06-03T23:41:00.001+08:00

There are many preconceived myths about wedding planners. Couples do forget that when you hire a planner, you're actually tapping into their experience and contacts which in the long run will save you money and of course turn your dream into fairytale reality. I chanced upon a well written blog by Jen Wooster-McBride, a wedding planner from Ohio which describes the perceptions that many have about what we do.

You can get Jen's original's post here and also as below.

I recently set up a booth at a local bridal show. As I talked with the brides and grooms I began to realize there are many misconceptions about what a wedding planner (or bridal consultant) can do for you. I then asked a few of my Twitter friends and got some additional feedback. So without further ado here are some of the most common myths about wedding planners and the wedding planning process.

1.I don’t want someone planning my wedding for me- Let’s put it this way, when searching for your first home a real estate agent facilitates the process, guides you and offers advice. They don’t choose which house you buy. That’s your job. Well, wedding planning works the same way. It’s your wedding and every decision is yours to make. A wedding planner acts as your agent. They facilitate the process, take care of the technical aspects and offer advice. It is still and will always be YOUR day.

2.I can’t afford a wedding planner- Did you know it takes 400 hours for the average bride to plan a wedding. That is 10- 40 hour work weeks! Can you really afford to spend that kind of time? Not to mention a wedding planner can save you money through discounts, negotiation and by helping you eliminate unnecessary expenditures.

3.Day of coordination (or weekend) is just the wedding day- Quite simply- No. It depends on the package you purchase but a professional will not just show up on the day with no idea what is going on! A day of coordinator will work with you several months before the wedding to ensure all the details are wrapped up, create a detailed timeline, confirm your vendors, attend the rehearsal and be there on your wedding day to take care of any issues that arise.

4.There isn’t that much to do- My husband volunteered when I was in need of an extra set of hands for a recent wedding. Let’s just say the manual labor was more than he expected. After a full 12 hours he said it was one of the most exhausting work days he ever had. Did I mention he works in construction?

5.I am supposed to want to do this- For some brides, the wedding planning process is heaven. Pretty things they have dreamed about for years. For others it’s hell. Yes hell. It is OK if you don’t like doing the planning but still want to have a rockin’ wedding. A bridal consultant can ease the pain.

6.My friends and family are going to help me- Of course they are! That is what friends are for right? But on that day wouldn’t you rather they enjoy all the little details you have painstakingly picked out? As one of my twitter friends said, “Friends don’t let friends set up”. Or teardown. Leave that to the professionals so you can celebrate with your loved ones. After all isn’t that what weddings are really about?

Be Inspired: Lacey Doilies!

2010-05-25T00:26:00.003+08:00

I'm absolutely crazy about doilies!!! Not only does it look great when serving cakes, but a great alternative to jazz up your wedding decor. Very vintage looking too!

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Perfect Wedding Planning?

2010-05-22T00:53:00.003+08:00

Love this advert. But it pretty sums up the extend a wedding planner would do to try to make it perfect for the couple. :)

Video courtesy of YouTube

Be Inspired: Mason Jars

2010-05-22T00:23:00.002+08:00

Reception centerpieces can be expensive but a few creative ideas could help you cut some corners not to mention eco-friendly. Mason jars have many usages aside from storing sauces, kitchen stuff and what nots. A cool idea will be to find jars in various sizes and use it as decorations in many different ways. Check out these fun ideas!

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Be Inspired: Mini Pegs!

2010-05-19T00:01:00.007+08:00

I always love the extra little details that you see in a wedding, such as these mini cloths pegs. The miniature things are just so cute, not to mention functional too. Don't you agree? *thumbs up*

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A Beachy Affair

2010-05-17T16:50:00.008+08:00

The great thing about Malaysia is that we spolit for choice with our many beautiful, exotic islands which makes a great wedding destination. Taking the sandy path to matrimony is a whimsical affair for many couples. Imagine having the blue ocean waves, sandy hues and breezy palm trees as your wedding backdrop that is most definitely romantic. It's all about finding your beach styles by bringing in the natural elements of the tranquil surroundings and creating the palette that fits with your vision.

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Pretty Seats

2010-05-17T11:30:00.002+08:00

Wedding chair decor is normally the last thing a couple would think about. Perception will be either it's too expensive or not practical. Keep in mind you don't have to be elaborate as a simple ribbon and flower will do just nicely. Enjoy the creative ideas below.

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Love is Aflutter

2010-05-17T00:52:00.003+08:00

Butterflies are normally seen as a fresh, new beginnings hence it's the perfect symbol to use for a special wedding. Butterfly themed weddings are now on the rise as they're colourful, beautiful and airy not to mention it brings a sense of love for nature.

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Lea Salonga: Two Words

2010-05-09T16:15:00.001+08:00

Lea Salonga sang 'Two Words' at her wedding as her wedding vow. Absolutely touching and actually watched it a few times. Her voice is just so angelic, can imagine why her husband broke down in tears a few times. :)

Flower Girls

2010-04-25T20:12:00.003+08:00

Have you noticed that children are generally excluded from formal wedding events unless it's held at home. It's such a shame as they bring such enjoyment and the 'cute' factor to the day especially their super adorable dresses though I would advise that ground rules will need to be set to avoid tantrum moments. Plus, they give the photographers much candid moments to snap. All together now, "Awwwww" :)

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My adorable nieces

Be Inspired: Paper Lanterns

2010-04-25T19:12:00.000+08:00

Ask around these days and you hear couples striving to make their wedding day extra special and unique especially when it feels as if more and more weddings are the same; similar cakes, gowns and cheesy music.

Thinking of making your wedding stand out from the crowd yet not so costly? One way to add that touch of eastern spice is to use wedding lanterns. Not only is this stylish, it brings such a beautiful ambience to the wedding setting and of course a great sense of fun.

We love iPhones!

2010-04-25T16:01:00.000+08:00

Cute ways to use the iPhones as part of your wedding photography don't you think?

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Be Inspired: Birdcages

2010-04-12T22:42:00.001+08:00

I love love love the look of birdcage as wedding decor! It's very stylish and great especially for outdoor weddings.

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Wonderful Graffiti

2010-04-12T21:38:00.000+08:00

I love graffiti. Especially if it's paired with a beautiful bridal gown or possibly a fun, casual pre-wedding photo shoot with your loved ones. It allows the couple to be more relaxed and be themselves in such surroundings.

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Hair Inspiration: the Long & Short of it

2010-04-12T20:58:00.001+08:00

The most important thing to remember is not to go overboard with wedding hairstyles. You still want to look like “you” on your special day hence dress your hair up so it reflects your personality. The “natural” days of plain straight hair are over as today’s bride looks for more creativity, more fun, more beauty, and more individuality. And a little hair bling helps to give that extra sparkle. :)

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Be Inspired: Green fingers!

2010-04-05T23:02:00.003+08:00

I love the bouquets, so fresh and chic!

Wishing Tree

2010-03-22T21:59:00.000+08:00

How about breaking away from the traditional guest book and consider using a wishing tree as an alternative. Guests leave their well-wishes for the couple on a small tags which can be hung on the tree. It's dramatic and so simple to do.

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Be Inspired: Parasols

2010-03-14T23:03:00.002+08:00

I just love umbrellas! There's nothing like a prop to bring out a woman's inner diva. Though the traditional bouquet is the bride's best friend, fun-loving brides are now reaching for parasols and umbrellas to set off their feminine charm; not to mention they look great in photographs. Alternatively, they can make great wedding decor. Check it out!

Karen Wise, Amy Fiedler via the knot, Henry Wade via the knot

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I heart Cuppycakes!

2010-03-01T00:12:00.001+08:00

Have you ever thought of using cupcakes as a wedding save the date? After all, who wouldn't welcome and love this yummy-licious alternative. Well, wait no more as Cupcake Chic is now offering such services. Though the idea might not be too feasible for the typical large Asian weddings hence more for intimate affairs or possibly to limit to special friends and immediate family.

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My Fair Lady

2010-02-28T23:49:00.003+08:00

Audrey Hepburn was an iconic beauty of the 60s and I just love her timeless style and her movies (especially My Fair Lady). Her words are a constant inspiration to me and am sharing with one quote that I feel will inspire any brides especially when you feel a little overwhelmed amidst your wedding planning.

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"For attractive lips,
Speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes,
Seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure,
Share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair,
Let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day.
For poise,
Walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.
People, even more than things,
Have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed,
And redeemed; never throw out anyone.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand,
You will find one at the end of each of your arms.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands;
One for helping yourself, and the other for helping others"

Diversity

2010-02-18T02:39:00.010+08:00

There're 2 things that I love about Malaysia. The Food! And...Culture!! Where else can you get an abundance of gastronomic flavors as well as a rich blend of wonderful traditions. Weddings in our homeland are such a delightful experience due to the fusion of the many races, religions and heritages.

I *heart* these pictures as the photos just speak for themselves.

Photos taken by Shutterspeak

Photo taken by Anna-Rina Photography

Photo taken by Kenneth Tan of Fabulous Chapter

Ring Pillows

2010-02-17T21:43:00.000+08:00

These beautiful hand crafted ring pillows from Anna Whitford are so amazing.

Unique Wedding Invitation

2010-02-17T21:21:00.003+08:00

We so love this wedding invite. Such creativity indeed. Don't you agree?

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Winners of the Wedding Giveaways!!!

2010-02-14T20:59:00.003+08:00

In the midst of my Chinese New Year mayhem, I managed to hijack my hubby’s cousin’s PC and quickly announce the winners of our recent wedding contest. There were a total of 33 entries (nice to see many submissions from the guys!) but unfortunately am only able to giveaway 5 copies. Do keep reading tie.the.knot as we will always have some sort of giveaways from time to time.

Congratulations to the winners on their win as well as their upcoming weddings! Good luck, enjoy the book and remember to have fun planning!!

Puteri Intan Zarith: wedding @ 09/2010
Sharon Das: wedding @ 10/10/2010
Mable Lee: wedding @ 13/11/2010
Kathlynn: wedding @ 1/1/2011
Ryan Tan: wedding @ 01/01/2011

Will be emailing all of you soon. Thanks for participating!

Gong Xi Fa Cai & Happy Valentine's!!!

2010-02-13T16:32:00.001+08:00

Am excited as it will be my first year officially celebrating Chinese New Year with my hubby. It will also be a time where I will be experiencing the reunion dinner as a wife and daughter in law.

To all my Chinese friends and readers, here's wishing you a roaring prosperous New Year. To my other friends and clients from other races, wishing you a 'happy holidays' too, and drive safely back home.

Don't forget to spread the love as well....Happy Valentine's!

xoxo

Real Wedding: Sherly & Boon (Chip San Leong & Tea Ceremony)

2010-02-05T01:49:00.001+08:00

Venue: Tropicana Green Acres
Date: 22 November 2010
Photographer: The Photoz

Real Wedding: Sherly & Adam @ Boon (Bersanding)

2010-02-04T23:17:00.002+08:00

Venue: The Club @ Bukit Utama
Date: 14 November 2009
Event: Bersanding
Photographer: The Photoz

Unique Bridal Bouquet

2010-02-04T23:13:00.001+08:00

Who would have thought of using brooches to make a bridal bouquet? What you waiting for....start raiding your grandma's jewellery box for ideas.

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We Love Dessert Bars!

2010-02-04T22:41:00.002+08:00

Why not put together a dessert bar to personalise your wedding reception. Not only can one get sugar high; the colourful eye candy makes such beautiful decor. It's a simple idea yet will bring a sense of fun to the festive occasion. You don't even need to limit to just desserts, you can explore possibly a coffee bar, ice cream bar, just cookies bar....the choices are endless.

Am totally blown away by Amy Atlas Events' designs. Love Love Love her creativity. Try not to drool at the photos. :)

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Real Wedding: Sherly & Adam @ Boon

2010-02-04T02:00:00.005+08:00

Venue: The Club @ Bukit Utama
Date: 14 November 2009
Event: Solemnisation (Nikah)
Photographer: The Photoz

This Is The Season Of Love

2010-02-03T23:10:00.004+08:00

Valentine's is just around the corner, and red is the obvious and dramatic color for this month of romance. Why limit to the traditional color of the heart when burgundies, maroons, plums & fuschia are just as romantic.

Here's some color palettes to inspire some fun & creativity for your upcoming dream wedding.

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The Getaway Car

2010-02-03T21:57:00.005+08:00

The getaway bridal car is a timeless wedding tradition where the couple zooms off in style. Some bridal cars are modestly decorate, whereas others contain every possible car decoration ideas under the sun be it with bells, balloons, shoes, tins cans, soft toys etc.

Ultimately, any vehicle (be it luxurious or practical) can be used as the getaway car and we know brides need to have their modern day carriage. We wouldn't want to see a beautiful bride walking under the scorching sun would we. :)

Car in photo can be rented from Classic & Vintage

It's All In The Details....Darling!

2010-02-02T22:37:00.002+08:00

There are lots of ways to make your wedding memorable especially for YOU and your guests. It's all in the details. So many people are overwhelmed with the big things; i.e. the banquet hall, the decor, the entertainment that they overlook the simple little details that will have your guests oooo-ing and ahhh-ing for years to come.

I love this photo taken recently by a talented photographer friend as the picture speaks volumes. It's not just about culture but the intricate designs of the 'inai' (henna) that brings a feeling of pureness to the day. And I am overwhelmed by the whole feeling it brings that if I was really there with the bride I would probably shed some tears....of joy. Of course. :)

Photo taken by Jennifer Tai Photo Artistry

Sharing The Love

2010-02-01T01:20:00.011+08:00

Found these lovely poems whilst randomly surfing (believe it or not...) for chocolate cookies recipe. I don't even see the connection between the two, but am glad that I came upon it as now I can share them with thee.:) The words are simple yet so powerful and endearing.

A Dream Come True

When you asked me to marry you
I didn’t need to think it through
Yes has to be the answer, I knew
‘Coz to me you have given your heart to.

How to be a good wife I have little clue
But I know my love will guide me through
Will give me the strength to subdue
All challenges that I may bump into.

This is because I love you too
To have you as my husband is a dream come true
Standing here today my emotions are few
Only bliss and happiness as you said “I do”.

Photo taken by One Eye Click

A Wedding Wish

When I popped the question, I had little clue
If you will marry me without further adieu
When you said yes, I finally blew
A sigh of relief as my life will consist of us two.

A wife is someone for a husband to
Protect, love, cherish and value
These and more are what is due
As I embarked on this new journey with you.

My wish is that I can come back to this same venue
To reaffirm my love after 10 or 20 years are through
To tell the world I still love you true
As much as I love you today when I said “I do”.

Taken from here

Pre-Wedding Shoots

2010-01-27T02:13:00.003+08:00

All I can say is the list of photographers out there are exhaustive, catering to every whim and fancy of the bride & groom. Couples are getting more adventurous with their choice of location shoot and some can be pretty quirky. Be it romantic, bizarre or even provocative it's a great way to capture the fun moments prior to the wedding. Now, wouldn't you want to show your future kids that Daddy & Mummy were once cool. :)

We Love Colours

2010-01-26T00:54:00.006+08:00

Brides of late have been starting a trend of wearing coloured wedding shoes. Who ever said the shoes had to match their gowns? Come on embrace your inner diva and get a pair of heels that makes you feel like the gorgeous bride that you are. Why not opt for red platforms, or blue peep-toes pumps, colourful flip flops or polka dots even. It will definitely pop!

Come on unleash that wild side. Besides, who doesn't love shoe shopping. :)

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Cake Maker, Cake Maker, Bake Me a Cake!

2010-01-23T00:16:00.003+08:00

So... you're getting married, you've booked your venue and decided on a theme or colour scheme. Now comes the fun part. Trying cakes!!!
Well, gone are the day where modern brides settle for fake 6-tiers wedding cake with the gaudy looking flower or ribbon icing. Now you can have anything from your wildest dreams.

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There are so many wonderful bakers out there who's willing to create whatever your heart desires. If you have a great Aunty, relative or friend who makes those cakes for special occasion, why not give them a try? Or if you quite the expert at making gorgeous cupcakes this might be worth looking for the budget conscious bride or just keen to give that personal touch.
Don't you just love this vintage looking cupcakes?

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Free Templates

2010-01-20T01:40:00.004+08:00

I love love love free things! Who doesn't. :)

I found a bunch of free wedding downloads that are available FREE from MarthaStewart.com for brides who are DIY-ing are on a budget. You can print your own decorations, labels, favor tags, menus and more! They are all just gorgeous and the template are nicely set up for you to just input your information.
Check it out @ www.marthastewartweddings.com/templates-and-clip-art

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Tea Ceremony

2010-01-20T00:33:00.003+08:00

I love the excitement, fun and tradition that comes hand in hand with a Chinese wedding. For those who are not familiar with tea ceremonies, in a nutshell it's a way for the bride and groom to honor their families and for their relatives to extend words of love, advice and present red envelopes (normally known as 'ang pows') with jewellery or money to the couple. The festive day is normally decorated in red to bring good fortune and luck. Red signifies love, joy and prosperity.

Shaping Up: Personal Training for Brides to Be

2010-01-15T02:45:00.008+08:00

The added stress of wedding planning does make it harder to slim down. For some brides and grooms-to-be, shaping up is one of the To Dos among the many others in their checklists. Just as getting married is a major lifestyle change, so is losing weight. Ultimately, you deserve to look your best on your BIG DAY.

Looking for a certified personal trainer? Doesn't matter what is your budget, schedule or timeline, our resident trainer will help you achieve your fitness goals to ensure you feel and look hot in your wedding attire. Want to know more on our packages? Email us and start getting healthy with the Bridal Body Blitz Programme! Sessions can be done individually, as a couple or even with your bridesmaids.

(no guarantees that it doesn't feel like bootcamp :P)

JEF SYLVESTER: PERSONAL TRAINER

Jef is certified by the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM), as a Personal Trainer.

His Forte: Strength Training, Weight Management, Kettlebell training, Sports Specific Training (Golf, tennis, kayaking, rowing, wall climbing), Fitness Kickboxing, and Capoeira Fitness.

Upon completion of his Degree in Sports Science, Jef began his fitness career 10 years ago with Clark Hatch International and later with Celebrity Fitness. His other passions in life includes fast cars and bikes, surfing, hiking, traveling and reading.

His Life's Motto: Not every difficult and dangerous thing is suitable for training, but only that which is conducive to success in achieving the object of our effort.

Wedding Giveaways!

2010-01-10T19:59:00.002+08:00

Hiya! Welcome to tie.the.knot!
For our first contest as part of our official launch of our blog today, we're giving away 5 copies of Weddings Malaysia. It's a must-have for everything a bride and a groom needs to be inspired to plan their memorable, fab wedding.

What do you have to do? Simply provide a photo caption to the below pic and the 5 most original entries will receive the giveaways. Either email us or post the caption in the comment box with your name, wedding date and email details.

Contest is open to all Malaysian brides/ grooms be in the country or overseas. Deadline is Valentine's Day, 14th February @ 5pm. Winners will be announced on same day @ 10pm!

Meanwhile, Good Luck & Happy Wedding Planning!

xoxo

Wedding Dais

2010-01-07T00:22:00.002+08:00

Malay weddings have evolved over time from a traditional affair to a very much modernised one. More savvy brides are opting from extravagant over the top themes to elegant chic.

For those who are not familiar with the culture, the decorated wedding dais known as pelamin is one of the focal points of a Malay wedding. The bride and groom are treated like royals for the day (Raja Sehari) and the pelamin is their so called throne.

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So, what does the couple do on the dais? Nothing much really. Basically, just sit there all demure looking pretty which we call bersanding. Like royalty basically. But in my case, I laughed like a hyena and was busy waving at friends instead of blushing like a shy bride. :P

Ending with an interesting dais pic created by a fellow wedding planner who's a relative.

2010: Bring It On!!

2010-01-05T18:00:00.005+08:00

Hello World!

I just love the start of a new year. The smell of hope, love, potential proposals are lingering in the air. If you're one of the lucky girls to be recently engaged, then CONGRATULATIONS! FACT: the wedding planning journey is going to be full of ups, downs & in between.
Some of the things I realized when planning my own wedding were:-

everyone has an opinion (take it with a pinch of salt, friends & family just love you to bits that they want to share their two cents)
you will get into silly arguments with your fiance over something that you don't even remember why you're fighting in the first place
whether you care to admit or not, you do momentarily turn into a 'bride-zilla' and drive everyone around you nuts

Having said that, this is the time to exercise your creative muscles and widen your circle of friendships. May 2010 bring you all lots of success, laughter, love and mouth-watering food. Yeah, isn't it obvious I'm a foodie. :)

Meanwhile, spread the love people!! xoxo

Sherly

Simply Natural: A Greener Way to Say I Do

2010-01-05T17:27:00.001+08:00

Here's a great venue for couples who want to show their passion for the environment. Tanarimba at Janda Baik. The venue is really vast, reasonable rental and the ideas to decorate the place are endless. The pine tree trunk pillars really sets a grand ambiance not to mention the simple yet beautiful structure itself. Reminds me very much of the cabins on the mountains in Colorado, US. Interested to know more? Email us.

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Ideas: Non-Floral Centrepieces

2010-01-04T17:04:00.039+08:00

A few inspirations for budget brides who wants something fun and playful; instead of splurging on the usual floral centrepieces. Most are easy to create and quite the showstopper which will definitely reflect your individuality.

Books: For brides who love reading or a back to school wedding theme. For a more colouful feel, use chic lit books.

Gift Boxes: It can double up also as a wedding favor.

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Paper Lanterns: Get creative with different shapes and sizes. Modern twist to a traditional look.

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Fruits: earth friendly!!!!"

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More fun ideas...

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The Veil Unveiled

2010-01-01T23:07:00.007+08:00

I have often wondered what's the symbolism or purpose of the bridal veil. Googled and found many different interpretations of the meaning of a veil, especially when it comes to weddings. Some of the meanings even changed over the years Here're sharing a few interesting ones and let you decide for yourselves.

Ancient Greeks & Romans used brightly coloured veils that disguised the bride to protect her from evil curses and harmful spirits.
A bride's veil is necessary for modesty especially among Muslim women.
To show that a bride will be an obedient wife
The veil represents the woman's transition from the pure, virginal state to the married state.
Used as an adornment to enhance the beauty of the bride.

So what do you think? I kinda like the last one.

Pic by The Photoz

Smokey Eyes

2009-12-30T00:03:00.005+08:00

Are smokey eyes acceptable for wedding make-up? Go for it if that's what you want! Provided the right earthy tones and dusty hues are used to compliment your dream look. Most wedding make-up is kept traditionally simple but more and more brides are now leaning towards the smokey effect as it looks great in photographs.
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Tip: Always do a make-up trial to see whether the look is suitable for you. What you see in magazines or on other brides might not necessarily be complimenting and any good make up artists would be able to advise the correct effect or shade.

Make up (both pics) done by Angie Ng
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Wedding Centrepieces

2009-12-29T19:45:00.002+08:00

Floral arragements is quite the norm for wedding centrepiece options. They vary from simple chic arrangements to large exotic ones. Of recent times, brides are giving more attention to centrepieces as they are a big part of the overall wedding decoration. May your budget be little or large; the variety of ideas are endless.

Floral design by Wishing Tree

Pic by The Photoz

Floral design:
3 feet tall glass vases with bundles of calla lilies tied with blooms of lime green cymbidum placed in the vases. Also slanted calla lillies decorated lime green cymbidium orchids and hanging crystal beads tipped with lilac roses petals. At the bottom of the vases, light purple caspia ring with lilac roses and cream candles scattered around the arrangement.

Floral design by Wishing Tree

Pic by The Photoz

Floral design:

Light purple caspia in a vase, arranged with lilac roses and calla lilies and tied with dusty green ribbon and hanging crystals beads with lilac roses petals

Savvy Brides: Getting More for Less!

2009-12-21T13:31:00.007+08:00

Congratulations on finding the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with, so the hardest part is over. Now, it’s about finding that someone to oversee all the wedding mayhem which shouldn’t be too difficult. Gone are the days where the young nervous bride timidly gets forced to choose something she doesn’t want whilst her mother dominantly hovers nearby. It’s understandable that brides are cutting their wedding budgets with the economic downturn, but the show still must go on.

So, the golden question that many brides-to-be ponder. “Why do I need to hire a planner?”

Honestly, this is very much an individual’s decision. Wedding planners are not as expensive as what most couples think. We work within your budget and provide everything from supporting the whole wedding process to only the actual wedding day. With the vast cultural diversity in Malaysia, mixed marriages are becoming quite common. Having to plan a simple wedding is a big feat itself, let alone the blending of two different cultures and at times even from opposite continents.

There are even career-focused brides or couples who need to alleviate the pressures of planning a wedding. As for younger brides, they normally look for assistance in personalizing their big day with whimsical, themed weddings.

Whatever you decide, we try to encourage the couple to be part of the planning process and mostly importantly to involve the family even if you’re paying. Any small gestures show that they’re much needed.

Pic by The Photoz

+ Size Bride

2009-12-15T00:31:00.010+08:00

I'm proud to be +size, and I don't know why everyone seems to have a problem with it. Asians can be very narrow minded when it comes to body image; apparently only skinny is beautiful. Huff! Honestly, I rather keep the curves and bumps thank you very much. But wedding gown shopping was very daunting for me personally; especially if you want to get it off the rack. In the current Malaysian market, most of the bridal shops or even designer labels are catered for the typical Chinese gal (read: super svelte, no space for cleavage,) or for the Malays (read: some horrendous gaudy purple fru fru looking thing.) Simply ghastly. Obviously am stereotyping, but let's put it this way anything that goes beyond size 10, the cuts and designs all look like gunny sacks k.

One of my bosses asked when I was busy with my own wedding planing; "Gal, are you dieting, like all brides-to-be tend to do?" I simply replied with a cheeky smile, "I don't try to squeeze into a dress. The dress fits me." :)

So, brides-to-be don't be disheartened and be all hung-up on your figures. All brides look beautiful on their actual day and it's your great sense of confidence that will bring that inner glow, make the guests gasp in awe especially your hubby-to-be.

Photo taken by Joshua K, InLight Photos

Location: Heritage Station Hotel

Cinderella Moment

2009-12-14T02:34:00.006+08:00

I was once asked out of the many weddings I’ve experienced and helped to plan which was the most perfect. Honestly, the answer is simply ALL weddings are truly perfect as it’s as unique as the individuals themselves be it chic, glam, offbeat, casual or simply traditional.

What most brides forget during their wedding planning journey that the wedding is the coming together of two people and two families. Everything else is icing on the cake. Don't you agree?

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